to laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the
affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and to endure
the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a
redeemed social condition; to know even one life has breathed easier because
you have lived. this is to have succeeded. Ralph Emerson